Waiting for GCSE results: A parent/carer’s guide to the countdown

Written by Natalie Hollins,

Parent Support Associate

For many families, the summer after Year 11 is a strange in-between space, GCSE exams are over, but results day still feels far away. Whether your child has bounced out of the exam hall or left feeling unsure, one thing is the same for everyone: the waiting begins.

As a parent or carer, it can be hard to know how best to support your child in this uncertain time. Here are some thoughts to help you (and them) navigate the next few weeks with calm and confidence.

It’s normal to feel mixed emotions

Even if your child seems relaxed on the surface, this waiting period can stir up nerves, self-doubt, and restlessness. You may notice mood swings, irritability, or moments of quiet reflection, these are all totally normal.

You might be feeling a bit anxious too, wondering how they’ve done, what the next steps will be, and whether they’ll get what they hoped for.

Try to offer reassurance, not pressure. Let them know it’s okay to feel uncertain and that GCSE results don’t define who they are or who they will become.

Keep the conversation open

Even if they don’t want to talk about results every day (and they probably don’t!), it helps to let your child know you’re there to chat whenever they need to.

A few things you might say:

• “Whatever happens on results day, we’ll figure it out together.”
• “I’m proud of you for working hard and getting through a tough few months.”
• “You don’t have to have everything planned, one step at a time.”

Avoid asking too often how they think they did, this could feed anxiety. Instead, focus on what they’re enjoying right now and what they’re looking forward to.

Planning ahead

You might already have post-16 options sorted, or you may still be exploring what’s next. It’s fine to keep things flexible and even to have a Plan B, just in case.

If results aren’t quite what your child expected, there are usually alternative routes, support from colleges or sixth forms, and chances to talk to someone about next steps. Remind them (and yourself) that:

• Grades are just one part of a much bigger picture.
• Colleges often offer supportive conversations on results day.
• Resits, alternative courses, or new paths are all valid.

Encourage some distraction

While waiting, it can help to focus on fun, relaxation, or new experiences. This is a rare bit of time before the next stage kicks off, try to enjoy it!

• It’s also a good moment to build confidence in other areas, like independence, organisation, or travel; things that will help in sixth form, college, or work.
• Days out, creative hobbies, volunteering, work experience, or even just some downtime can be a great reset.

What to expect on results day (Thursday 21^st of August)

GCSE results are usually available from the school or centre on a specific date in August. Your child may need:

• Their candidate number or ID.
• A plan for what to do next (college enrolment, speaking to a teacher or advisor, etc.).
• Reassurance – whether they did brilliantly or need a bit of help with next steps.

Try to keep the day low-pressure and focused on moving forward.

One last thought

However your child feels about their results, you are their anchor. Your calm, steady presence and belief in them as a whole person matters more than any grade.

Let them know that their effort counts, that setbacks can be stepping stones, and that you’re with them every step of the way.